Oh Yes... Signs of Cheating Boyfriend. The Tall Tale Signs People...Oh Yes... Signs of Cheating Boyfriend. The Tall Tale People... A story submitted from one of you BootCamp Peeps... Thanks and Enjoy. Psyched, then Psycho He was Indian and so was she, they were perfect, but he he told me he would never leave me. We had gone through so much together, convincing our parents that an Indian , and an Asian could be together, but then along came (lets call her X) X and he no longer needed me, this was what I concluded. I was always scared he would leave me for her but we never talked about it, because when I did bring it up it was a week of crying and yelling. Life went on and i kept my suspicions to myself when ever they hung out. Some times in his breathe there was a faint smell of cigars,I don't smoke and nor did my boy friend, again I never brought it up. After ten years of dating, he asked me the big question of course I said yes, taking it as a sign that he had grown up. The big day had quickly come, and I was getting dresses in my white gown, when I remembered I had left my make up in my car. When I opened the door to MY car, I saw my future husband, and X making out. I was so upset, angry and betrayed that I just stood there and watched until they noticed me. X smiled at me and he didn't even have the nerve to say sorry. The part that hurt most about this was that I could have avoided the whole canceling the wedding returning the gifts, moving out, and years worth of tissues if I had confronted him earlier. He told me that I was psycho for thinking that he would cheat on me or even think about him cheating on me, and i believed him! He ruined my life and some days I still wake up crying but I have learned to forgive him and X because of intense surgery that boosted my self esteem. I am now 50 and dating a 25 year old, I was 300 pounds when I dated him and now I am 125 and size C bust line. Nothing that surgery can't fix, right ladies!
~Elle, Bootcamp Staff
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