Flirting Signals of Attraction, Flirting Signals & Flirting Signs... What's Really Going on At Work?

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(Our Advice to "Anonymous" from ~ Bootcamp Staff)

"True Love True?"

by Anonymous

I have been with my man for almost 5 years.It was love at first sight or so it seemed.

Now I am finding out that our girl friend we have well, my man and her use to share all details of their lives as they worked together. He had even got her a bike before we met.

Now she admitted to me that she use to have strong feelings for my man and that she always thought that she would end up being with a guy like him.She swears she doesn't anymore he is a good friend and she would never do such a thing to me.Even my man had feelings for her they had chemistry, but somehow we ended up getting together and people from our work had said that she had lost her chance at him.

I feel like I am the odd one out like I disturbed soul-mates or something I got between them.At this point there is nothing to worry about because we all get along great and she is my girlfriend but it is in the back of my mind.

Was my man destined to be with her.They are closer in age and have lots in common, they understand each other somehow.

Is it normal for them to have a connection like that and yet still say they have no attraction for each other? If they do have a connection is it better to call it quits?

My man says he loves me and I am the woman of his dreams we have a child together now and I feel like maybe he could be staying with me for our son.Do you believe that two people are destined to be together?At times I have no doubt in my mind that my man is my soul mate we connect and then at times I feel like we are not. Is that what relationships are all about?

Thank you


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