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"My boyfriend is Doing Nothing with His Life, But I Love Him. Should This Be a Deal Breaker? "

by Ashley Binheimer
(Colorado)

My boyfriend is 35 years old and still working as a bartender. This is what he has been doing his whole life and I want him to try to do more. He tells me that he will and to leave him alone about it but he never does anything.

He is a GREAT person, so smart, so nice, a very hard worker but won't put himself out there. I am only 25 and working, while also going to school for my second time. I live in a nicer place then he does and make more money then him.On top of all that I am still trying to better myself even more. Not to sound materialistic but by the time I am 35 I hope to be done with living in an apartment. He also has no savings and that worries me.

I don't want to sound selfish by wondering if this should be a deal breaker but I just don't know. I love him allot while he loves me allot too. It's hard to not feel frustrated and a little unattractive when he sleeps in till noon.

So for my question; Is love enough to accept all this, or am I wasting my time?


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